"So, what if, instead of thinking about solving your whole life, you just think about adding additional good things. One at a time. Just let your pile of good things grow."
Attachments, Rainbow Rowell (via impetrate)
"he’s going to fuck you up and you’re going to let him"
most sober thing a drunk person could ever say to you (via forebidden)
"I think anybody who falls in love is a freak. It’s a crazy thing to do. It’s kind of like a form of socially acceptable insanity."
"When somebody makes you laugh when you’re sad, that’s the most enjoyable laugh you’ll ever experience."
IT by Alexa Chung (via ixnae)
I used to think
I was overreacting.
now I realize
it was just a
to an abnormal
"Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit."
inkskinned, “My father’s recipe for the man I should marry” (via partygirlmeltdown)
"We’re not something, but we’re not nothing."
i said this to myself in my head when i was inexcusably drunk one night at a party and saw this guy (of mine?) giving his hands, his heart and his admiration to someone else. i couldn’t be mad because he wasn’t mine, but he also wasn’t hers either (via floricawild)
"There is one thing I’ve learned about people: they don’t get that mean and nasty overnight. It’s not human nature. If you give people enough time, eventually they’ll do the most heartbreaking stuff in the world."
Jennifer Mathieu, The Truth About Alice (via anditslove)
"There is nothing like returning to a place that remains unchanged to find the ways in which you yourself have altered."
Nelson Mandela (via elliptical)